Okay let’s start with the term “bond” all of us have been bonded with someone or something emotionally or mentally for the sake to get peace in life. Well someone can give this bond the name of Attachment, love and friendship. The interesting point about this bond is based on one’s perception how a person is ready to give and take from this bond. As we all know we believe in destiny whatever is meant to be will happen. Okay fine! We all agree with it, but have you ever sink yourself in the thought of “efforts”. As I believe destiny plays partial role in humans life it depends on our efforts if people failed to get the purpose of life, then most of them start to blame the destiny, without even giving a try to success. Efforts and destiny both are equally dependent. When we give up on destiny then here comes the inner sound which says “I and destiny are two different shores of the bay which always drift apart from each other and the poor wanderlust me still looking for the answers”.
Yes it is what is it, but at least we have ability to recognise the things or the situations how to overcome from it and how to maintain circumstances. So let’s talk about something new which is relevant to attachment. Each term is interconnected with one another, we often use the term “expectations” and indeed it is natural process when we attach ourselves to someone, we automatically expect something in return that might be efforts, love, attention and time. The most beautiful feeling is when we got all of them from expected person. Human nature is very eccentric sometimes we want attention and sometimes we don’t want anyone and all we need some time to sit alone and figure out the mess of life. Emotions are easy to hurt because we give selected people “Power to control our happiness and sadness when we attach ourselves to them”.
More often humans drag themselves into detachment phase from everything for a while but the truth is we know creator has made us full of emotions. The more we try to escape, the more we become numb and eventually we feel nothing and start being remorseful to our own existence. There’s a story of every person if they’re shattered or they are living life to the fullest. The term love, attachment and friendship gets its actual meaning the way one perceives it or experiences it. We shouldn’t judge emotions on the base of situations or circumstances. But yes if someone isn’t capable of being true or sincere in emotions with other person. He/she have no right to destroy the happiness of them. If a person isn’t ready to love or be in friendship with someone wholeheartedly don’t go for it, i repeat don’t do it. These mind changing game of yours can deprive someone deeply or maybe that person won’t be able to believe in love or friendship again. Whenever we talk about attachment it is definitely connected with loved ones. Don’t try to escape from reality if you are suffering from any misery, learn to face it but never try to play with someone’s time or emotions for temporary being. If you’re alone it is better to get attached into hobbies or the things which makes you feel alive and peaceful. I repeat don’t use some other person to escape from loneliness.
Love and friendship is natural bond you should go for it when you confidently say“i will never break the expectations of loved ones”. This bond is meant for permanently, which gives you uncountable memories. For sure we can say destiny is attached with us and we are bonded with destiny, each person plays his or her role as per it is meant to be. Be thankful our creator has given us ability to think and we are capable of analysing each bond and relation. Think before taking any step don’t make your past and present remorseful in future. “Try not to blame destiny and make your efforts stronger day by day that is the secret of stable life”.